I think we’ve got a peeing professional on our hands.

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We finally discovered the secret.  Axel likes to pee standing up.  Go figure.  We should have known, considering he is a just a miniature man.

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The other day, Axel was holding on to a five gallon bucket, in a standing position.  He was having diaper free time.  Apparently, it wasn’t a good time for that, because within a few minutes, he was urinating all over the floor.  (It’s just a little baby pee!  :) )  Anyway, we were excited because that meant that he could pee standing up.

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The next time we took him to the bathroom, we let him stand on the edge of the tub to go tee tee (gosh, I talk like a mom, scary).  He immediately peed without a fuss at all, and after that day, there’s been no turning back.  He only wants to pee standing up, and he’s not a happy camper if you try to make him go potty any other way.  My little boy’s growing up.  Pretty soon, he’ll be peeing all over the side of the toilet, and leaving the seat up.  I can’t wait.

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Check out the video footage link below.

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Just to warn you, his pee stream gets awful close to my razor.  That’s okay for two reasons, though.  Number 1- we spray vinegar on the tub afterwards; Number 2- I’m not shaving.  :)

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By the way, our son peeing in our shower is much more sanitary than him peeing on himself.  So, there.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjsDjvqHqpM

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Last year was a great year!  My son was born, and I got to learn so many new things about myself.  It’s amazing how motherhood has transformed me into a completely different person.  A better person.

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One thing that I think really strengthened me was standing firm in my parental decisions, despite opposition from others.  No one thought I could have a drug-free childbirth.  No one thought we could use cloth diapers.  No one thought we could practice Elimination Communication.  Yet,  we’ve done all those things.  Did we do them perfectly?  Of course not.  But, the important thing is that we gave it our best shot, and continue to do so.  That’s as good as we can do.

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As for the cloth diapers, and EC, things have gone rather splendedly, if I do say so myself.  I’m really baffled that more parents aren’t doing these things.  It does require a little more energy, but it’s so worth it, especially if Axel ends up being potty trained before age two, which I think he will.  (That would be a great perk, but even if that doesn’t end up being the case, we will still be glad we made the decision that we did.) 

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Cloth diapers have been such a life saver for us.  We would honestly be flat broke without them.  I drew up a couple of charts to show how much money we will have saved by the time our son reaches his second birthday.

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*Includes:

  •  2 dozen infant prefolds; 3 dozen medium; 3 dozen large
  • 4 Super Bummis Whisper Wraps small; 1 Thirsties cover medium
  • Washing/Drying every two days, with old machines (not high-efficiency)
  • Purex Free and Clear
  • 15 Snappis
  • 2 Planet Wise diaper pail liners; 2 medium Planet Wise wetbags

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*Includes:

  • 2 dozen infant prefolds; 3 dozen medium; 3 dozen large
  • 4 Bummis Super Whisper Wraps small; 1 Thirsties cover medium
  • Washing/Drying an average of every 10 days  (Wash half loads every 5 days with other clothing)
  • Purex Free and Clear
  • 15 Snappis

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*Includes:

  • Basic Pampers diapers, average usage of 8 per day
  • Basic Pampers wipes, average usage of 12 per day
  • Most basic diaper pail from Walmart
  • Regular 13 gallon trash bags, average usage of 12 per month
  • 2 (1 pound) containers of Boudreaux’s Butt Paste

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*Includes:

  • Nature Babycare eco-friendly diapers, average usage of 8 per day
  • Nature Babycare eco-friendly wipes, avergae usage of 12 per day
  • Most basic diaper pail from Walmart
  • Regular 13 gallon trashbags, average usage of 12 per month
  • 2 (1 pound) containers of Boudreaux’s Butt Paste

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Totals for all the different diaper options below

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Totals for multiple children below

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*Another great thing about cloth is that they are re-usable (duh)!  You can easily use the same diapers, covers, and wetbags for 3 kids, thereby increasing your savings tremendously, as you can see in the chart above.

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Wow, after looking at all these graphs, I realize that Patrick and I have really saved ourselves quite a bit of money.  The money we’ve spent is represented by the EC chart, which means that by the time we’ve had 3 children, provided they are all toilet trained by age 2, we will have only spent $610 for everything.  Now, compare that to the expense of Pampers at a whopping $6464!  Come on, people, get with the program.  This is money in your pockets! I hope that we can convince others this coming year to try cloth diapers, and maybe even elimination communication.  It’s such a relief for the landfills, and our wallets.  That’s what I call “eco-mom-ical.”

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*Other extra thrifty diaper ideas:

  1. Buy less prefolds (You really don’t need 3 dozen of any one size, 2 dozen is plenty!)
  2. Line dry your diapers
  3. Use a high efficiency washer and dryer
  4. Re-use your prefolds for 1, or even 2 more children. 

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P.S. - Elimination Communication isn’t as hard as it looks.  It can be time consuming, especially when you’re first starting out, but it’s benefits far outweigh the trouble.  We want our son to be trusting towards us, and that means we need to respond to his immediate needs, including elimination.  Give it a try!  I promise you’ll either love it, or hate it.  :)

Yesterday, after posting the video of my son using the bathroom (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHQf7Ph-soc), I received many negative comments.  I’d like to address some of those.

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There were two comments that were particularly frustrating to me, the first one being that I was “holding him like an animal.”  (Referring to my son)  I must say, that is simply absurd.  I hold Axel in a manner that makes him the most comfortable, and that just happens to be in a squatting position, which is believed by many to help facilitate the eliminating process, especially bowel movements.  No, this is not a theory, it is something that works for my child.  I have seen the proof.  I have also experienced this myself.  What can I say- we like camping, but there’s not always a bathroom facility available.  ;)

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Secondly, people seemed perturbed by the fact that I “woke” Axel up from his nap, in order to bring him to the potty.  That is just not so.  I never wake up my child for a bathroom visit, he always does so on his own. The reason he was being woken up was because his nap was over.  I am trying to get him into somewhat of a routine, because his schedule, or lack thereof, is starting to wear on everyone in the household.  He is cranky, we are cranky, and we all need sleep.  If he takes too long of a nap, he won’t be tired when bedtime rolls around, and therefore, we don’t get the sleep we need.

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I do, however, bring him to the bathroom as soon as he wakes up, regardless of whether or not he woke up on his own, as such was the occasion recorded on the video.  I suppose that the next time we decide to make a video, we will record him going potty during his “awake” hours.

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For future reference, all those who have disagreements with my site, or what I post, I’d ask that you please make a substantial argument in favor of your opinion without making mean statements about my lifestyle choices.  You are not forced to read my posts, but if you truly feel that I could do something better, present your side of the story.  Who knows, if you make a good enough point, maybe I’ll change my ways.  I’m not closed minded on these issues, and I realize I don’t know everything.

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I’d also like to thank the few that have encouraged me.  I deeply appreciate it, especially when all the feedback I seem to be getting is rude and unhelpful.  I hope that more people can accept that I am doing what I feel is best for my family, without criticizing me.

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I am not judging anyone for doing things differently, at all.  I think it’s perfectly okay for you to live the way you want to live, and it’s also fine for you to dislike the way I live.  Opposition will always be present in our society, and I don’t think that’s a bad thing, but I do think there are healthy ways in which people can disagree.

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Thank you all for reading.

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(Later today: Our budgeting struggles, and successes!)

So, we have been doing EC with our son since he was 3 weeks old.  It has been one of the best things we could have ever done.  He knows when he needs to go, and as long as we’re paying attention to his signs, we are able to get him to the bathroom.  Granted, we have our “off” days, but overall, Axel does really well.

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Despite how many times I say this, though, there are still the skeptics out there who don’t believe infant potty training is actually possible.  Luckily, I’ve found a way to eliminate this problem.  We’ve made a video.  Please, see for yourself, infants can be potty trained!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHQf7Ph-soc

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3 Weeks Old

3 Weeks Old

Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love cloth diapers.  We’ve had an amazing experience with prefolds, and we are a lot less broke because of them.  Now, though, we’ve become spoiled.

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A while back we decided that Axel was doing well enough with EC (elimination communication) to start wearing underwear.  Or, at least, something similar to training pants, with a little padding.  Sad thing was that the cheapest “baby” training underpants I could find were $4 a pair!  There was no way I was paying that.  My really nice prefolds were only about $2.50 each, so it didn’t make sense to spend that kind of money on tiny underwear.

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Patrick had the great idea to buy some regular undies, and sew cut up cloth dipes into them. We went to Walmart to buy the whitey tighties, but the smallest size we could find was 4t.  We bought them anyway, figuring we could probably shrink them pretty good in the dryer.  After successfully shrinking them, we cut up some prefolds into thirds, and went to a friend’s house to use her sewing machine.  That’s when the problems started.

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The thing is, I had never used a sewing machine, and had to be taught how to use it in roughly 15 minutes.  Needless to say, I must not have been the best student, because that stupid little wheel thingy at the bottom kept falling off, and my needle kept losing it’s thread.  I spent so much time and energy trying to sew those darn things, but after 3 hours of frustration, I gave up.  I wasn’t a complete failure, as I did end up with 9 pairs completely finished.  Granted, they look terrible, but they serve their purpose well enough.

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The sewing episode took place about 6-8 weeks ago, and we haven’t touched the subject since.  My husband is starting to get really annoyed with the the bulky prefolds.  The underwear are so much easier because you don’t have to worry about snappis, or finding a place to lay Axel down to put on his diaper.  You can just pull the things on and off in a few seconds.  Plus, Patrick loves walking Axel, and the prefolds make it harder for him to do so comfortably.  (By “walking”, I mean holding Axel’s hands while he walks.)

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Anyway, point being is that I need to get to another sewing machine and finish these things!  Having the remaining 10 pair finished would make a world of difference, especially since Patrick does whatever he can to avoid using the prefolds, even if that means washing the underwear twice as much.  (Which is ridiculous!)

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So, my official New Year’s resolution is to have the underwear done before the new year.  That’s ironic.

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Also, just FYI, these homemade training pants are really inexpensive.  We bought a pack of 6 undies at Walmart for about $5, and then we cut up our newborn prefolds into 3 pieces, and seamed the edges closed.  Those prefolds were about $2 each, so, divide that by 3 and add it to the underwear cost.  In the end, they came out to be about $1.35 each.  A good deal, if you ask me, and so worth the effort!